Mother of All Rallies, Canberra – in pictures

A cold, rainy, miserable day wakes us up. Caramel Popcorn is not quite ready to be up, but I scoop him up and we cuddle for a bit while I make the coffee and do a quick mental plan of what needs to happen so we are out in time to catch the bus. We have 3 buses to juggle, so free spirited movement is not going to cut it.
We make our way to the City Center, where one can see a suspicious amount of women with little children wondering around. Its not a nice day for a walk in the morning. I look around for some place to buy a bigger umbrella, as the one I have can just about cover the back of my hair and my by now sleeping child strapped to my back. No luck. My bus arrives and I jump in and sit close to the driver, for easy access to the doors.
And then they came. The women with babies and signs and t-shirts. I was watching the driver as his eyes kept on popping in bewilderment at all these people with kids. It was awhile before he could get the bus going – I believe he said we were 8 min late. He exclaimed “What a way to start the week!” as he wrangled the big wheel.
He was going to drop us right at Old Parliament House, but since there were so many of us, he didnt risk it. We were off and headed to the gathering at the Aboriginal Tent Embassy. The rain was wispy and I could feel the chill in my arms, for some reason.
The official rally starts in about 45 minutes, but a Welcome to Country ceremony is happening here with the aboriginal people. This involves them welcoming us on their land and blessing the event we are holding on it. I wouldnt have missed, as for we are fighting for rights, respecting others should be an integral part of our ideology.
Then as a gesture of good will (I missed the exact words, but it was about our striving for equality for all and things of that spirit. Dont judge, I was drunk with excitement at all these wet fired up people around me)
we threw a branch of eucalyptus in the Sacred Fire.
The smell was so spiritual like, drifting with the smoke around us.
Then we left, what was one of my favorite parts of the day.
We set off to the main event.
I dont know who this woman was, but she gave us our chant.
Lets see…
I cant remember it now…
Something something… My Body, My Choice.
Obviously I am a terrible chanter. Never mind.
Then we got a glimpse of Parliament house and I saw there was already a group of people there. A rather big one, from what I could see.
There was another protest happening to the left, not sure what, so dont ask. Our troops were to the right and spilling nicely along the lawn, which was way too long and I knew the wet socks were a sure thing.
I am pretty sure I heard a war cry from that other end when they saw us coming. I wonder if they thought its only them that braved the distance and the rain.
No, no, sisters and families, we are all here. The whole few thousand of us. It felt so good.
I grabbed a coffee, as I was cold and still a bit in a dreamy like state and tried to find a place where I could hear what was happening. It took them awhile to fix the sound, so I, well we, missed the beginning part. Then came the politicians to score their points. Call me cynical, but I highly doubt it they would be down with us, if it were their party in power. Still, it was nice to feel as though we have people in there, defending our rights, no matter what their reasons are.
The rain stopped and started intermittently, but it was nice to have a break here and there. But dont judge the photos too much, keep in mind that I was holding an umbrella, a coffee, a bag and a one year old on my bag while trying to take pictures with my pinky and balancing on one foot on top of a half eaten apple.
Lots of happy little children were all around. They sure did brighten up the mood. Women with children are a powerful sight and a mighty force to be messing with. If only we were men with money, then no one can stop us…
I am serious.
You may think that if you bring thousands of people from around the country to the parliament that is supposed to represent them, that it would make a difference. That it will make a wave that will splash on the shores of democracy. You would think that.
(I took Caramel Popcorn inside to change him and give him a bit of a stretch, as he had been strapped on me for about 3.4 hours now.)
But, once you passed our rally line and went inside our Parliament House, the one that was designed to be walked on by its people. Not even inside, as you came near it, the voices of the people were distant, so distant you can barely hear, and only if you want to. Only if you really try.
Look to the right of the street:
Peace and order. Pinnacle of Democracy.
Look to the other side of the street:
Unrest. People demanding they are heard. In the rain. With children.
Whats wrong with this picture.
But there were no “grumpy feminists”, cranky women, menopausal old hags. As a matter of fact I didnt see any hysteria around the place. Maybe a few hippies here and there, but who can be judgmental of them, come on.
The vibe was warm and supportive with a good measure of wet.
There were a lot of lovely signs and slogans. Here are my favorites:
The hippie bus filled with rainbow coloured pillows of love, I am guessing.
“Midwives Bill – Failure to Progress”
Muahahaha!
In reference to the most common bollocks reason given to mess with a pregnant woman’s birthing body.
And this one:
Which sums it up rather nicely. But my favorite part is that the sign is held up by a man.
And then it was over.
I have to give special mention to this man:
And that one:
And that one:
Take two:
Because he took it all in like a seasoned political activist. I had planned to let him crawl around the grass, but that was not a good idea on the day, so he spent the vast majority of time glued to me.
Respect!
Now, dont go thinking that seeing as this was such a massive effort someone gave a crap. We made a few ripples, enough to say we are around, but I am afraid democracy doesnt quite work like advertised. Keeping the bastards honest is hard enough, making them listen is about as hard and impossible, unless you are a dude with lots of money, but we have established that earlier.
Commercial news didnt think we were worth a mention, not when there are things like obscure radio hosts retiring from morning shows or a bride giggling too much on her wedding day. One wouldnt want to bother the community with such trivial things as women’s rights to their bodies.
Still, it was so worth it. If not for anything else, but seeing all these babies in slings was just good for the soul. I dont think I have seen that many baby carriers, ever.
Suddenly I was not a fringe extremist that likes her kids to be close to the dismay of the wider community, but one of the many women that came to this place, on a rainy crappy day to make her voice heard.
Whether anyone did is another question.
Signed,
Wet Feet Proud Heart
Be safe and GOOD LUCK!!!!! I should have sent you a beanie for Caramel Popcorn so his little melon would stay warm!
Love ya
Thanks for sharing your experiences with us!
Love all the fotos…and colors! ROCK ON Momma!
Thank you for supporting women. You have done us proud!
Now I wonder whether there will be any progress with the politicians???
Well, the anti-spam word is quite on place – “respect”!
Don’t be pessimistic – the intelligent people of all countries get the news from the blogs, not from the official and boring newspapers.
You have done the best you can.
Bravo to Caramel Popcorn, he was an example boy that day!
Looking forward for good results of your campaign!
wonderful! Wish I could have been there.. I’m just a flower child momma wannabe — but all the same it looks great and although I don’t birth at home I’m all for the choice….
so on a side note.. does everyone over there wear thier babies or is that just a hippy momma thing??? I’m one of the few over here that wears thier kids… I get funky looks all the time..
Thank you for your kind words, everyone. The rally has been definitely noticed, although still not deemed important enough by mainstream media.
Kris, no, I am usually chased around the streets by people to inquire about my sling. Its not a common place occurrence. It just the type of women that attended the rally that made it look that way ;)
SO SORRY Caramel is sick! Have safe travels home to the loved ones!
Thankyou :) Thankyou for going, thankyou for standing up for all of us and thankyou for posting this.
I honestly have tears streaming down my face….it’s all so wrong.
What is democracy again??
Thankyou. xxx
What a wonderful summary of the day. Your photos are just gorgeous. I was proud to be there too!
Fantastic images. I see my daughter in her sling :-) It was such a powerful, emotion filled day. Shame about the poor media coverage though, meh. After-all, it is only a wimmins rights issue, right?
LOVE your photos! I was there, but forgot to bring the camera (but I did bring a couple of tent shelters so I remembered the important stuff). I’ve been to a few protest rallies, but this one had the best atmosphere of any that I’ve seen so far. I was proud to be part of it.
And DO please send some photos in to the Birth Matters editor (Maternity Coalition’s quarterly journal). They’re putting it together right now, and would love some great shots like yours.
I can see me in picture number 17! Myself and a fellow mutt are holding the ‘hands off my birth choice’ banner.
I wish I knew you were at the rally we could have caught up!
Emma, I sure wished I brought a tent ;)
Summer Days, we got disconnected and I was out of the loop of the get togethers. I think I was the only one by her lonely self, disregarding the dude on my back of course.
Amanda, which one were you? There are so many slings.
Thank you Bec and Laura.
What stunning quality photos! I see a couple of my friends in there too… great stuff and great commentary!
I think you captured the day pretty nicely really! mmm wet sox… at least the feet went numb after a while.
Didn’t our children cope beautifully and patiently!!!???
These are the most beautiful photos!! Lovely words too. xx
Thank you for this wonderful blog – the photos and the text were very good for my soul. Women with babies are a powerful force indeed!
Caroline
Other then the rain, it looks like it was a great day! You look so smart in your glasses, still beautiful of course but with a bit of smart. LOL
11th picture up, we were holding the banner ‘Peace & Love at Homebirth – The Safest Choice’. With our ‘in spirit’ supporters handprints on the reverse ;) DD’s Mei Tai had a Born at Home T-Shirt pinned to it. xo
Loved the rally blog & had a lot of laughs (always good for the soul) whilst reading it. I am soooooooo very grateful for the women, men & babes who braved Canberra to support us & the right to birth with a midwife, wherever they choose.
From a long time, homebirth, IPM, thank you
Annie Sprague
Great blog. Terrific pictures. Couldn’t find myself and my buddy.
Home birth, it’s my choice, It’s my right, hear my voice!!!!!!!!!!!!
I came with a bright printed T-shirt but it was too cold for a northerner to get down to that layer so it didn’t see much light that day.
Cheers
Judy
Judy, that was it! The chant.
Amanda, I wished I took a picture of your face then, but I always feel funny doing that.
Jae, a BIT of smart! hahaha
Annie, it was a lovely day being surrounded by all these women bound by such a simple and yet important cause. I hope we have made at least a bit of a difference in the end.